Are you currently in a relationship? It’s a beautiful feeling right? Oh, you’re a member of the Single Life Corporation? Don’t worry, so am I but it’s okay. We will come across our soul mate if we haven’t already overlooked them. But this post isn’t about us single ladies & gents. This is about the members of the relationship world. I like to refer to them as “relationshipers”.
Why is it that every time someone whether they’re famous or not, announce that they’re in a relationship with someone, someone else has something negative to say or even find ways to sabotage their relationship? Oh yes my single members, there’s a few of us out here who find out that two people are dating and immediately make unattractive facial expressions as well as make comments like, “eww, why he with her?”, “she a hoe”, “she ugly”, “he broke”, “her breath stink”, “he was just with ol’ girl” & etc. What does it matter to you who they with? You wanted a shot at that individual or something?
Celebrities get it bad. They can be the “perfect couple” and been together for 20+ years and somebody in America is going suggest that one could do better than the other. Obviously that’s who he or she wants to be with. Shouldn’t no one have to hide their love if they’re truly in love because of the remarks of nonfactors – that’ll be you negative speakers.
It’s kind of sad that so many people hate to see two people happy together. We should be encouraging more of that. It’s a shame that many people choose to keep their relationships a secret because they do not want to be criticized by the public. Face the fact that Will & Jada, Beyoncé & Jay -Z, T.I. & Tiny, Kanye & Kim, Gabrielle Union & Dwayne Wade, La La & Carmelo Anthony, Tasha & Ghost – Lol just playing about them, but it appears that everybody else is not getting a divorce anytime soon – I hope not at least. People even talk about the President & First Lady splitting up – I definitely hope that never happens & they haven’t even shown a tiny sign of having issues within their marriage. Let them married couples be! Encourage them to have everlasting happy marriage. And let all the couples such as Ciara & Russell, Nicki Minaj & Meek Mill, Jordin Sparks & Sage The Gemini, Bow Wow & Erica Mena, Oprah & Stedman, Lil Ray Ray & Shay Shay be happy as long as they’re happy.
Don’t be bitter & miserable you’re entire life – at least not openly. If you must speak on anyone’s relationship, don’t do it so openly. It makes you appear as a hater & very lonely. That doesn’t look good on you. As long as one is not doing anything to physically harm the other, you should not care or have anything to say about a relationship that doesn’t have anything to do with you. Unless you want what they have or sick of satisfying yourself – hey, I’m just saying.
To all the couples out there whether your relationship consist of one being short & the other is tall, one being fat & the other is skinny, one being black & one being white, one being young & one being old – as long as they’re legal of course, one drive a Benz & one drive a hooptie as long as they’re happy, I’m happy for them.
And to my single members, if you must discuss someone else’s relationship, make sure you do it with people you can trust, not sneak dissing or commenting your disapproval all over social media because you may just get put on blast. Now you can #TalkIsh